Eliminate Limiting Beliefs In Yourself and Your Abilities

I want to talk about limiting beliefs and how I define my own. 

Over the years I have come up with what I believe are amazing, wealth increasing, financial building and life changing ideas that I brilliantly converted into my own potential empire or at least that was my goal. 

I wrote out each plan for every new creation I was able to design to ensure my success. I even designed a bevy of unique marketing materials and I wrote all the content for my business which for me was a blessing as I love to write. I had put a great system together and everything that I needed to prosper in business was in place. 

Here’s Where I Failed. 

Although I had a remarkable system in place my mindset was not in sync with my goals and dreams. As I was taking inspired action to build my businesses my mind was focused on my limits as a business owner.  Everything I had ever dreamed about in terms of business and all I aspired to be would ultimately fail because  besides having a fantastic system in place I also had a good amount of limiting factors in place as well. Why was this? I’ll  share with you exactly why I failed. 

As I was building my dynasty I was jumping for joy excited to launch and share with the world my life transforming products, ebook and designs. Oftentimes I was awakened by God’s loving Holy Spirit Who spoke to my heart telling me what to write. Grateful for His direction I penned the words He graciously spoke to me for I already knew that not only would my life be impacted but so would my audience. I was overjoyed. I knew in order to drive traffic to my self made website I would have to utilize social media to help grow my business. I froze. I was ashamed and embarrassed to let my friends on Facebook know or see the businesses I had uniquely designed. Why was I limiting myself. Was it about being embarrassed to let people know that I was trying to earn a living because I needed money? Yes. That’s one reason. The other reason was I just didn’t think any of my friends would ever support me and let me tell you something; I was exactly right but then I didn’t expect them to. Again my mind was not in sync with my goals and endeavors. I had great limiting beliefs even though I am highly creative with some of the most fantastic gifts and talents any woman could ever wish for in her life. 

I Lived Like This For a Lot of Years, But Never Again

And now I look at myself and all I can say is my oh my.

My creativity has taken on new meaning and my mindset is in a new place. First of all I have trust in God. This was extremely important to me. To know and understand the important of trusting in God. And then there’s faith. My faith is stronger than it’s ever been and that’s because I know the meaning of of the word. It has changed my life. All of this is something I didn’t have before. 

Limiting beliefs are no longer in my life. I got rid of them because they were stilling my steps and preventing me from living my greatest, most amazing and awesome potential. Talk about grateful. Talk about powerful. Talk about creative. Talk about profound. Talk about courageous. Talk about bold. Talk about high self-esteem. Talk about soaring. Talk about great life changing success. Talk about abounding in abundance and talk about wealth riches and prosperity and you’re talking about my life. 

How I Was Able to Overcome My Limiting Beliefs

Before I was ever able to eliminate my limiting beliefs, I had to get over fear which I learned was a complete waste of time because it didn’t have a purpose in my life. There is never a need to be fearful to use what God has placed in your heart and mind to do. 

I also had to trust in God knowing that He has always been right here with me, leading, guiding, directing and counseling me with His infinite.  He is indeed the greatest Coach in my life.  He inspires me so much so that I look forward to building up my businesses in ways that are unique and highly creative. I also had to learn another essential factor which was to have faith in God.  My lack of faith in God was another component that held me captive, but once I decided to break free from bondage it was at that very moment that my life changed and my entrepreneurial spirit soared higher than it ever has before. 

I decided that I was going to change my mindset and try my best to think positive thoughts with images of myself working my businesses and enjoying the success that comes with and lines up with my goals.  My focus and ultimate mission is to be a help and a blessing to others simply because God is always helping me and I must share my blessings.

If you feel you are being limited by your thoughts, change your mindset right now.  I know it is not as easy as just saying it, but once you’ve made up your mind to see images of yourself being success and wealthy and your life overflowing with milk and honey you will shift and your financial forecast will change as well.

Because every business woman and entrepreneur needs encouragement!

Cynthia

You Have the Power.

You Have the Victory.

THE NBA FINALS

These Guys Are Some of the Best

To Ever Play The Game and So Are You!

Hello Women of Excellence,

It’s Thursday evening around 11:30 at night and the game is on. I am watching the NBA finals and loving every minute of the action. With action being the key word I am taking what I like to call impacting notes. Notes to help me to become an even better business owner. 

I often hear from the sports world that Lebron James is the greatest player of all time, but with so many other great basketball players who came before him I have to disagree and just say he may be the best player in his era/time. And since I’m not a LB fan I’ll just say he’s good. I will not take that away from him.  With that being said I am going to watch Steph, Klay and Kevin shoot the lights out as they press towards winning four consecutive games and once again, becoming NBA championships for a third year. I’m excited. 

As I watch this action filled, fan cheering, stadium packed basketball game I’m pondering how to add, through my creative mind, the very thing that is going to boost my business even more. It is a constant mind thinking business planning strategy. 

As the game is being played I’m thinking about the Warriors players and how well they shoot. They are phenomenal players with great coaches, awesome fans and amazing support systems; their loved ones. Even the sports commentators are fantastic as they report on and share their expertise with each play. It just doesn’t get any better than this NBA package brilliantly planned with great knowledge and intelligence. The NBA players are some of the most talented players in the world. They are indeed the very best. 

And just like them we are stars. Whether we are silent behind the scenes entrepreneurs or motivational speakers constantly pouring out our knowledge with those in need of our services/products we are some of the amazing business owners to ever grace the universe.

We possess minds so creative that we have the unique ability to erect empires that cannot fall nor fail because with our positive thinking we are successful. And if it’s possible for us to be and do even greater we strive towards that goal. The possibilities are life changing. We just have to be open to receiving and accepting them one by one. It’s how we grow when we accept those challenges that make us really think and delve into that new goal that is presented or given to us. It’s how we prosper our businesses and it’s how we prosper as we sleep. 

We are now in the 4th quarter of the finals between the Warriors and Cavs. Golden State is up; 84-80. There is absolutely positively no doubt in my mind that the Golden State Warriors are going to win this game and there is no doubt in my mind that I’m going to take away some fantastic tips from all the shots taken and all the dunks made and just like the Warriors we too have the victory. 

Because every woman business owner needs words of encouragement.

Cynthia

PLEASE DO NOT USE THEM

They Have No Place In Your Business

Please, plain and simple.  Please do not use dated marketing strategies. I cannot express this enough. I know I’ve written about this before, but I feel the need to say it again. 

When marketing your business don’t ever think that you have to lie to your potential customers to make money. 

Let me share q quick story with you. I will abbreviate it so that I get my point to you without taking up too much of your time because as you know I could go on and on forever writing a book that you probably don’t have time to read right now. 

There were times when I would chime into coaching calls from others in a true effort to market my business. Excited to learn  something new or different that I may not have been aware of in terms of marketing my business, I instead learned a valuable business building WHAT NOT TO DO TO OTHERS lesson.

There was a young lady I connected with or so I thought. I am one who is always willing to let others into my heart because business for me is more than just business. It’s more than making a thousand dollars in a few days. It’s about building trustworthy relationships and new friendships simply because I love people. I absolutely love to give and I think it’s life changing when we give and are willing to share what God gifts us.

When I give it seems that I am always reminded in some way that for most people business is strictly business.

Okay, so I met this young lady and we shared our business models with one another. She said I had an amazing product ( design business) and she promised me she could get me a ton of business if I allowed her to coach me. I didn’t think that I need one-on-one personal coaching because I had already been in business for so long that I just didn’t feel there was a need. I kindly explained that I would think about it and she said okay.

Well this young lady kept in touch with me on a weekly basis presenting to me her coaching program. She said the price is this, but the offer goes away at midnight. Well I have to say that she badgered me so badly I decided to decline her offer. It was then that she removed me from her Facebook page. Just like her offer, she took me off of her friends list. I was really beyond surprised because in my communication with her I was honest and sincere and excited to have found what I thought was a new friend in business, but me being naive I learned that people just want to make money.

This young lady didn’t care about me not one iota.  Her main goal and focus was her business and making money.  I accepted that fact and now after learning that valuable lesson I learned a lesson on top of that which is the importance of being authentic. Now please don’t get me wrong I’m not downing that young lady for what she did. She did what was best for her and her business. I will always believe deep down in my heart that she has missed out on something potentially awesome.

Create a unique and brilliant marketing strategy for your business and put your clients/customers first.  Remember, business is about people and when you put people first, their concerns and needs my oh my the success that can follow is astounding.

So I want you to think beyond those dated marketing strategies and just be honest. Create your own kind of new with sincerity putting into place a remarkable system using your gifts, skills, knowledge and wisdom.  Design that amazing marketing blueprint for your business and enjoy your unspeakable success.

Blessings Upon You,

Cyndi